The Motyv Podcast
Men are stuck. Men are lonely. Men and masculinity is under attack. Why? Because men are powerful beyond measure to build and save the world. The Motyv Podcast is here to help librate men around the world, advocate what they're going through, while at the same time providing solutions. Come listen to the four amazing therapists who've partnered with Shayden Bertagnolli to create this movement to LIBERATE MEN!
The first 91 episodes of the Motyv Podcast focus on solving life's hardest mental health problems and is loaded with value. Chapter two of the Motyv Podcast is focused on Liberating Men & Their Mental Health.
Episodes
117 episodes
The Motyv Podcast Episode 25 | Overcoming Mental Health Struggles The Power of Sharing Your Story
This episode of the Motive podcast features Shayden Bertagnolli discussing a therapy session he had with a client named Joe who opened up about his struggles with mental health. Shayden shares Joe's lengthy list of negative and self-defeating t...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 24 | Overcoming Shame and Finding True Belonging
This podcast discusses how understanding opposites can help overcome problems like anxiety, shame, and a lack of belonging. The hosts explore how the true opposite of anxiety is trust in God, and how vulnerability can help men overcome shame...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 23 | Thompson Tough: Finding Hope, Strength and Compassion in Suffering
Shayden interviews his friend Eric Thompson about his experience living with ALS. Eric discusses how his diagnosis has changed his perspective, making him more compassionate towards himself and others. He shares his struggles with loss of indep...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 22 | Finding Purpose and Rejuvenation
In this episode, the speakers discuss their daily routines and the importance of small disciplines in building structure and focus over time. They explore the relationship between busyness, worry, and avoidance, emphasizing the need for self-ca...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 21 | The New Direction of Motyv Men, Liberating Men From Pornography
Shayden and Blake sit down and talk about the new direction of the Motyv Men program.
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Finding Meaning in Suffering: A Chat with Erik Thompson, a man battling ALS
In this episode, Shayden Bertagnolli sits down with his friend Erik Thompson to have an open and honest conversation about Erik's experience living with ALS. Erik shares powerful insights he has gained about finding meaning through har...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 19 | Liberation from Shame's Grip
In this episode, licensed therapist Shayden Bertagnolli delves deeply into the nuances of shame and how it can hold men captive. He discusses shame as an emotion, a state of being, and a thought process ("shaming") used to falsely atone. Sha...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 18 | Liberating from Resentment Through Accountability and Empathy
In this episode, hosts Shayden Bertagnolli and Blake discuss how resentment and blame can hold people captive in unfulfilling relationship patterns. They guide listeners through an exercise of identifying the benefits of resentment and the d...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 17 | Trusting God's Timing for Healing
In this episode, Shayden shares lessons from a men's group discussion about trusting God's timing for healing past wounds. He encourages listeners to slow down and experience God's love and presence now rather than waiting for full healing. Sha...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 16 | Healing from Betrayal and Trauma in Relationships
Shayden Bertagnolli hosts a discussion on betrayal trauma with Sadie and Phyllis. They discuss the impact of betrayal such as infidelity or pornography use on relationships from the perspective of women. Key topics include common feelings and m...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 15 | How Gratitude Is More Than Something You Do
Shayden leads a discussion about gratitude with Sadie, Steve, and Jordan. They discuss how gratitude is not merely appreciation, but something that possesses you. Questions such as “how do you know if you have enough gratitude?” and “how to fac...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 14 | How to Increase Your Self-Awareness About Lust, Depression, and Niceness
How things are said and defined really matters. You need to know the differences between, attraction and lust, depression and sadness, and niceness and kindness. They matter and most people don’t know the difference. Listen as Shayden, Jorda...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 13 | How Do We Know What to Focus On And How Can Christ Help Us Heal
Shayden and Blake talk about how sometimes we forget to thank God for ourselves. They also talk about the Power of Christ to heal mental health struggles, and the importance of having something positive to put our focus on.
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 12 | The Art of Masculine Playfulness And Why Men Struggle
Playfulness is more than just laughing and having a good time. Most men lose their natural playfulness for various reasons. The playful consequences in relationships, parenting, and individual life are discussed. Shayden, Blake, and Steve di...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 11 | Lawn Mower Vs. Helicopter parent and what you can do about it
Shayden, Blake, Steve, and Sadie reflect on their own experiences as parents and therapists, shedding light on how a balance between support and autonomy is crucial for a child's growth. They discuss the impact of over-rescuing and enabling kid...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 11 | The Vulnerability behind the Man Cold
From milking it shamelessly to searching for that precious moment of vulnerability, Shaydon and Sadie delve into the deeper emotional and psychological aspects at play. Discover the delicate balance between needing a break, feeling shame, and t...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 10 | How to recognize and replace Burnout with Purpose
In this podcast, you'll delve into the concept of burnout, which affects many of us at different points in our lives. The hosts offer a refreshing take on the distinction between burnout and exhaustion, shedding light on the vital role of recog...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 9 | Learning to Balance the Light and Dark with in You
The hosts offer practical advice on how to work through the internal struggle of maintaining a balance between our light and dark selves. They emphasize the importance of self-awareness, focusing on becoming the person you want to be, and offer...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 8 | Breaking Free: Escaping the Vicious Cycle of Unhelpful Patterns
In this episode, Shayden and Blake discuss the importance of understanding behavioral patterns and core beliefs in overcoming struggles like pornography. They explain how to map out a pattern and identify the core beliefs that drive problematic...
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 7 | The Consequences and Solutions to a Mind That Never Turns Off
Is your mind running you or are you running your mind? Did you know you aren’t your mind? The knowledge in this episode will blow your mind! Pun intended. The challenge and announcement at the end is a must hear.
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The Motyv Podcast Episode 6 | Why Toughness Matters
Shayden and Blake talk about staying tough while still being able to express your emotions, compastion vs acceptance, and learning how to deal with emotions like sadness and boredom.
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#3 Why Some Men Do Hard Things And Some Don't
Men are motivated by many things. Knowing what really drives you is crucial to living purposefully. Think about the hardest thing you've ever done. Why did you do it? We break down how and why a Crossfit athlete finished on a broken foot and wh...
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